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How Do I Pick Up Women At Bars or Even At The Gym
When you approach and attempt to talk to any number of super hot girls you will begin to see that they are going to test you. If you fail the test you certainly won't hook up with her. Period. You will simply join the pile of men that she has had to reject because they simply weren't confident enough.
The GREAT news is though that there is a way to pass these tests with flying colors nearly 100% of the time.
Most men run away from hot girls' tests with their tails tucked between their legs. Those guys who know the techniques required to pass are going to be in the VERY small percent of guys who get around her defenses and actually become a sexual candidate.
When you don't know this one secret technique, you will never gain entrance into a truly beautiful woman's world , much less her bed.
Here tests can be one of two types; congruence tests or compliance tests. Here we are talking about compliance tests. Let's talk a bit more about these gruesome tests and WHY beautiful hot women NEED them.
When a woman makes a compliance test she is checking to see if you are going to do whatever she wants. If you pass the test, she will have gained control over the interaction, the conversation and you.
Women really do want you to pass these compliance tests. It is their way of culling out the truly confident, attractive guys from the rest. Beautiful women can't just look at a guy and say "he is so good looking, therefore he's really attractive". They are approached by so many different types of guys which makes them need much more. A really beautiful girl will usually get hit on 10 to 15 times a day.
Just think, that is conservatively 3,650 times a year. With this many hits she will start to see patterns in the way guys behave. Do they display confidence? That trait has nothing to do with their looks.
The compliance test is used to see whether or not they're going to be able to get away with whatever they want with you. They want to find out whether or not you are accustomed to hitting up on beautiful women and whether or not you are used to being with beautiful women.
This is a very crucial concept. If the guy is used to being with beautiful women, you are not one that will bend over backwards for a woman just because she wants something. Instead, he will respond in a way that sort of puts the compliance back on her.
You are guaranteed to get the compliance tests from beautiful women that you approach. If you fail, then you are guaranteed not to attract them. So, it is crucial that you understand this.
How do you recognize these compliance tests? Look for any demand that she gives you within a short time of meeting that seems very small, but gets you to follow.
One very classic compliance test is "buy me a drink."
When you are in a bar women use this to go for the throat. They don't have a whole lot of time to figure out who is attracted and who is confident and who's not. How you respond to "buy me a drink" is very important when you're in a bar.
There are other small things like "give me a kiss on the cheek" or "why don't you wait here while I go to the bathroom" or even "will you take a picture for us?"
Anything that seems kind of harmless is typically a compliance test especially if it's from a really beautiful woman and you don't want to deny the compliance test. What you want to do is take control over it and add your own terms.
For example, if someone says, "Take our pictures." Then you will say, "okay, I will but I want to take one picture for you and one picture of how I ask you to take it." Usually they will say okay fine, so you take the picture and then you go "okay, now I want you to give me a sexy look." Then take their picture. "Okay now, make a silly face", take a picture. And continue to make them do different pictures as long as you can think of them.
Essentially what you're doing now is you are getting compliance from them. This is crucial. This is called flipping the script and you will hear a lot about this. Flipping the script is one of the most powerful things that you can do to a woman that you don't know and it will create a massive amount of intrigue and a massive amount of attraction will be built.
So from now on, know and recognize when women are giving you a compliance test. You don't want to stop or reject the compliance test. You DO want to add your own terms.
When you add your own terms then you are going to see the truly beautiful women in the bars, or anywhere else, start to treat you in a completely different way. You will be watching other guys get shot down and have their nights ruined while you easily navigate the sea of compliance tests and are looking like a rockstar. Since you have learned to show that you are a guy that won't just do exactly what she wants you will be making her more and more attracted to you.
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